GAIN Without Pain
Andy Asher editor of Bloomer Boomer speaks with Dr. Greg Hammer of Stanford University and his book GAIN Without Pain focuses on the four pillars of gratitude, awareness, intention, and nonjudgment to promote well-being. GAIN Without Pain offers a clear path for self-care that incorporates the most recent science with a heart-centered approach. The GAIN approach offers one the ability to reconnect with why they became a healer and more importantly how to be happy while being a healer.” – James Robert Doty MD, New York Times bestselling author. Being Resilient in the Midst of the Pandemic Greg Hammer, MD We are amidst the third month of the coronavirus pandemic, heading for month #4. Our sheltering in place efforts have helped flatten the curve in the US and elsewhere, and most of us are fortunate not to have been overrun with the surge of new cases we anticipated only a few weeks ago. Although some shops and restaurants are being cautiously re-opened, a great deal of uncertainty remains and important questions will be answered only with the passage of time. When will we see the decline of the spread of this deadly virus even as our beaches, parks, and other public areas become accessible? When might we be back at work? Can we keep our families safe? When can we safely spend time with our family and friends without wearing masks or staying 6 feet apart? Will there be another wave of disease spread once this one is under control? What about the economy – will it recover swiftly in the coming months, or will we experience a lasting depression? There is so much suffering around us – even though we may have avoided infection, we cannot help but be adversely affected by the pandemic. Uncertainty brings stress. While acute stress may be adaptive in selected cases, such as running away from a predator or rescuing a child from the swimming pool, chronic stress is essentially always maladaptive. Stress causes elevations in the hormones adrenaline, cortisol, and glucagon, resulting in increases in heart rate, blood pressure, stress on our heart, and blood sugar. Decreases in estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone cause fatigue, mood swings, headaches, and weight gain. Our sleep is compromised. Our energy is sapped and we may be unable or unmotivated to exercise. Our nutrition suffers as we reach for fatty “comfort foods” or refined foods high in sugar for relief. We experience anxiety, a nagging ache in our chest that intensifies when we see the rapidly rising number of Covid-related deaths in the US and elsewhere. We see evidence of human suffering around the globe and feel powerless to help alleviate it. The suffering we associate with the pandemic may veil the underlying suffering that seems always to linger. The remedy we seek in our objective experience fails us. We suffer from a lack of fundamental understanding of ourselves – that the peace and love for which we search are, in fact, our true nature. This innate peace and understanding are veiled by our objective experience, leading us to believe that we are a separate entity – that we appear, live as an isolated being or ego, and one day disappear. The knowledge of “I am” is limited by our objective experience, or the “ego” or “separate self.” For all of us who are experiencing these ideations and symptoms, these are normal responses to chronic stress. You are not alone by any means. Might there be a silver lining to this pandemic? There are hopeful signs. Many of us are connecting with family and friends with whom we may not have spoken for some time. We appreciate the magic of the internet, thanks to which we can virtually join with others around the world. We may be physically isolated but do not have to be socially and emotionally alone. We feel compassion for others who are severely affected here in the US and around the globe, irrespective of ethnicity, nationality, or political beliefs. The virus knows no geographic borders, and neither does our compassion. We may find ourselves being unusually “present” with our loved ones, working together to try to make the best of a difficult situation. For many of us these experiences bring a sense of well-being in the midst of tragic circumstances. What are the lessons we may learn during this crisis? One is the importance of Gratitude – we are appreciative of the company of those with us at home and, for at least some of us, at work. We embrace connecting via the internet and telephone. We recognize how much worse things could be. It is worth remembering the influenza pandemic of 1918. Information, food, and clean water were scarce. People were isolated – there was no internet and no Facetime or Skype, and the health care system was completely overwhelmed. The most basic supplies were not available, including medicine, material for masks, and even coffins. Global suffering was unimaginable. Fifty million people died around the world. We have it so much better now, 100 years later.
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